Taken from NST.com.my
Malaysian teachers say 'No' to sex
2010/03/02
KUALA LUMPUR: Malaysian teachers are saying ''no'' to sex. They are not ready to impart sex education in schools.
They lack professional training in teaching the subject, National Union of Teaching Profession (NUTP) secretary-general Lok Yim Pheng said today.
She said, while the union fully supported the government’s move to provide sex education in schools, “sadly, the teachers lack formal training in the complexity and sensitivity of the subject and are not confident to teach it”.
Lok told Bernama the teachers were afraid they might be sued by the parents “if they were to make mistakes in imparting the knowledge of sex to the pupils.”
Malaysia is a multi-racial, religious and cultural nation with each ethnic group having its own notion on the subject, which made the teaching more challenging, she noted.
The NUTP is the country’s biggest teachers union representing 160,000 teachers, which is approximately half the teaching profession.
Lok said the union wanted the education ministry to first discuss with the stakeholders on the pros and cons of the move before making a firm decision.
Currently, the subject was taught in “bits and pieces” from the primary level to secondary level, in the absence of a proper structured course.
Of late, sex education has become a very important issue in the country, with an increasing number of unwed mothers, many of them students.
Meanwhile, a Bernama survey among students, parents and teachers showed that all groups were in favour of sex education but were unsure of the form and content of the course.
Teenage student Jayaraman said he was all for it, but was unsure what and how the teachers were going to teach because "we have more girls than boys in our class and most of our teachers are female.”
Abdul Raof Bidin, 38, who has two school-going children, felt that it was necessary to teach the subject.
"It should be handled with care as it could easily be misconstrued and do more harm than good, if wrongly imparted," he said.
Another parent, M. Arumugam, 44, believed it was better for medical professionals like doctors and nurses to impart the subject to students.
“Maybe, the education ministry should consult the health ministry and come up with some kind of arrangement for teachers to be provided with on-the-job training," he reasoned.
Betty Lee, who has 24 years teaching experience, felt that the subject was best handled by “teachers who themselves are mothers and know how to handle such a complex subject.
“With due respect, not all teachers can teach the subject, and the ministry should be very careful in selecting the right candidate for the job,” added the 50-year-old. -- BERNAMA
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Seriously, I know they are trying their hardest to get the matter to start as soon as possible, but why are they still contemplating over the matter still? Cases of underage girls and boys are taking a joy ride behind a curtain somewhere, not knowing the effects they'll get from doing it so 'freely' (they might have known already but still do it) are rising throughout the year.
When a girl gets pregnant, who's going to take responsibility? The guy who did it to her? Yeah, there are some who are willing to take on the burden, but what about the rest? Some girls commit murder by dumping their babies after giving birth to them, why? It's sickening to see headlines about these matters, but hey, they keep on happening.
If teachers can't do it, why not parents? Parents knows there kids better than anyone, so what's keeping them? It is a sensitive matter, but it will help the young ones to understand right? It can prevent unwanted things to happen. And if not parents, then the school can organise a talk by people who are willing to talk about it. I remembered back in form 5, a few personalities came over to my school and talked about their experiences. So what the heck, there's a solution right there. What's keeping them?
2 comments:
I think at the end of the day, it all comes up to parents.. They should be the educators to their children and set things straight.. They should be more responsible although it might be uncomfortable to have such a talk with their children.. But what is there to loose? They wouldn't want their daughters getting knocked up right? and then say, I should have advised her.. blah blah.. Its worth the shot at least.. Better safe then sorry..
I think they can have it in Malaysian education system but maybe in the tertiary level of education.
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